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I love Lemmy (slrpnk.net)
submitted 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) by countrypunk@slrpnk.net to c/fediverse@lemmy.world

It's brought me joy in life and I've learned so many new things. How cool is it that we get to enjoy all of this cool stuff for free (as in cost) and free (as in freedom)?

That is all. Hope everyone has a nice day.

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[-] Blaze@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 4 months ago

Don't let a few people ruin your experience

[-] gofsckyourself@lemmy.world 0 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

It's more than a few. It's several admins, a handful of their followers, nearly an entire instance's users (even after blocking it), prolific posters that mod dozens of comms and people will rally behind them regardless of how much of an asshole they are being to you, and even one user in particular that was banned but is now hiding under a new account.

It's also partly how the platform works which feeds the most toxic users. It's how the platform seems to entice people into stricter tribalistic behavior than other platforms. Say anything that might be construed as negative towards one of the many things these groups base their entire identity on and you get swarmed by them and you can't even defend yourself. You get downvoted to hell and they get upvoted for being assholes by their other cult-like followers. Not that votes "matter", but it just makes it feel shitty when someone decides to be an asshole to you and they get supported for it while trying to defend yourself only gets more people against you.

There's more, but trying to describe it all is making me feel worse.

This place sucks. It's absolutely awful that I feel this is actually true, but reddit was better than this.

[-] QuadratureSurfer@piefed.social 2 points 4 months ago

I find it useful to sign up for multiple accounts and then segregate those into browsing/posting habits for different categories. One for gaming (or other relaxed communities), one for science & tech, one for politics that I only occasionally dip into, one that's a voting only account, etc.

At the very least, you can take a break from communities that can easily be more toxic, whenever you want. If downvotes bother you, I would also suggest signing up with a fediverse instance that disables downvotes.

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