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For example, you put yourself through university by studying hard and working full time. Then someone says, you should thank god for giving you the strength. Like wtf do you mean, I busted my ass day in and day out but I'm supposed to thank god for it?

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[-] cerebralhawks@lemmy.dbzer0.com 48 points 2 days ago

Atheist here. No, I don’t. The religious person who put in the work still put in the work, through their faith in God. The Atheist does it through their faith in themselves. It’s the same energy, because the religious person doesn’t think they have it in them. They do, but God makes it manageable. I get that. So when they say it about you, they’re just using tense they understand.

Like when they say “bless you” when you sneeze. They’re wishing you health in terms they understand.

[-] anon6789@lemmy.world 16 points 2 days ago

Bless you is a great example. I don't think most people say things like bless you or God gave you the strength to be literally religious, they're just a spiritual person's way of being polite.

[-] MeThisGuy@feddit.nl 11 points 2 days ago

I just say 'holy fuck'

does that count?

[-] i_am_hiding@aussie.zone 2 points 2 days ago

I'm religious, and I say that too. I think you're in the clear.

[-] anon6789@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

I assume most folks using that expression are not using it in a deep spiritual manner, so it probably does. Saying it also usually makes people feel at least a smidge better after venting those feelings, so you may inadvertently also be a little more blessed. 😇

[-] MeThisGuy@feddit.nl 1 points 2 days ago

yeah but when I say 'blessed thee' people look at me funny

[-] anon6789@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago

That's their loss. I'd laugh. 😄

[-] squirrel@cake.kobel.fyi 5 points 2 days ago

This is the first time I translated "bless you". I never knew it was something religious. In german we simply say "health" (Gesundheit) when someone sneezes.

[-] Godnroc@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

I say the same despite only speaking English because I once read it was less like blessing someone and more like saying "keep your demons to yourself." I now believe that is inaccurate, but it does make for a story.

[-] i_am_hiding@aussie.zone 4 points 2 days ago

I say Gesundheit here in Australia like its muscle memory anytime anyone sneezes. My girlfriend hates it but its ingrained in me, I have no idea why. Its just a funny word

[-] black0ut@pawb.social 5 points 2 days ago

That's interesting. In spanish, we also say "health" (Salud). I wasn't expecting it to be the same in a language as different as german.

The "religious" word we can say when someone sneezes is "Jesus" (Jesús). Which is also a weird thing to say. I'm pretty sure the origin is still christianism, but I can't see why someone chose specifically that.

[-] SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 2 days ago

Interesting observation - where I live many / most people will say Salud (good health) when someone sneezes, as an intentionally secular version of the more traditional Jesus

[-] cerebralhawks@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 2 days ago

I was raised to say gesundheit. It's German and basically means something like "here's to your health." Apple's translation service says it just means "health".

[-] angrystego@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

It does mean literally health.

[-] cerebralhawks@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 day ago

Thanks. I saw someone else say that, and then I used Apple Translate (what's built into my computer) to translate it. I'm part German but I'm not from Germany and I don't speak German. I know a couple dozen words, mostly thanks to Rammstein, but my father taught me gesundheit.

Funny thing about languages, and I'm not sure English really does this. You sneeze in Germany, people say "health," but what they mean is, "to your health" or similar. In Japan, you might be called an "otaku", which is sort of a badge of honour in the west, as it is taken to mean you are a fan of something and very knowledgeable on the subject. In Japanese, it just means "house" or "your house" — as in, you never leave it. If someone calls you "otaku" in Japanese, they're saying you never leave your house, you're a basement dweller, you need to touch grass, and so on. Sure, in the west you can be a "homebody," someone who prefers to stay at home, but not a "home." It's also early, so while I know a couple dozen words in German and like 5 dozen words in Japanese, English is my first language and it may very well have similar terms, I'm just blanking right now.

[-] angrystego@lemmy.world 1 points 16 hours ago

Yeah, you're right, the implied meaning can be better translated with more words than the litteral one. And it's nice to encounter a fellow German-through-Rammstein student ❤️‍🔥 (Mein Herz Brennt)

[-] snowydroopz@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago

Thats a beautiful way to think about it

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