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[-] palordrolap@fedia.io 28 points 2 weeks ago

There is a solution to all of this. Unitary WCs. Each has one toilet, one sink, at least one method for drying hands and at least one sanitary disposal for non-flushable items. Mirror optional. A toilet brush might also be a good idea.

Communal rooms should go the way of the dinosaur.

That way, anyone, regardless of persuasion, intent or comfort level, can use a toilet in peace. And if they want to invite someone else in for safety, so be it.

All the problems with this solution are excuses, and usually not very good ones.

[-] InternationalHermit@lemmy.today 11 points 2 weeks ago

I believe that communal bathrooms are cheaper to build and maintain, hence we still have them, not because anyone enjoys using them.

[-] grue@lemmy.world 7 points 2 weeks ago

That's what he said:

excuses, and usually not very good ones.

[-] thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com -2 points 2 weeks ago

he

they

internet accounts are they unless otherwise specified

[-] grue@lemmy.world 7 points 2 weeks ago
[-] thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 weeks ago

i see, does make sense here

it still is good practice

especially that often "he" is used without consideration

Especially on Lemmy, where the users seem to fall into one of two stereotypes: ultra-nerdy dudes, and trans/NB people.

Hell, over at !unixsocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone, they may even fit both groups.

[-] thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 weeks ago

trans/NB people

nonbinary people do fall under the trans umbrella

unless they are intersex in a particular way that they regard their nonbinary gender identity as matching what they were assigned

[-] MajorasTerribleFate@lemmy.zip 0 points 2 weeks ago

Philosophical question. In a jurisdiction that allows for full government recognition of someone not being either male or female, and if someone was "assigned NB at birth" then remains NB into adulthood... sounds like they wouldn't meet the technical definition of trans.

This comment isn't about taking anything away from anyone, it's about a tiny little thought experiment.

[-] thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 2 weeks ago

why would government recognition affect whether theyre trans

but yes, intersex people can be cis enbies

[-] MajorasTerribleFate@lemmy.zip 1 points 2 weeks ago

Well, trans is being a gender other than what you were assigned as, or raised as, or whatever.

If what you were assigned/raised as is, say, agender, and you continue to be agender, does that not make you "yes NB, not technically trans"?

[-] valtia@lemmy.world 9 points 2 weeks ago

Thankfully, there's an even better, easier, cheaper, and just solution to this as well

Negate the ruling and allow transgender people to use the correct bathroom that is congruent with their gender identity

[-] thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 weeks ago

better

just

it is neither of these

its way better than bathroom bans but defintely not better than unitary wcs

it divides us, is heteronormative, and still excludes some trans people (those for whose identity there is no bathroom for (nonbinary people))

unitary wcs eliminate creeps entirely, segregation provides a flimsy superficial defense against some of them

[-] frongt@lemmy.zip 7 points 2 weeks ago

More frequently it's individual toilets and shared sinks.

[-] thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 2 weeks ago

Communal rooms should go the way of the dinosaur.

obliterated by high velocity rocks?

[-] littlewonder@lemmy.world 0 points 2 weeks ago

Maybe also a urinal in each? Too many times have I accidentally sat on stray drips from people unwilling to put up a toilet seat in unisex bathrooms.

[-] palordrolap@fedia.io 1 points 2 weeks ago

I'm leaning towards no. If you're sat on the toilet in a small WC room, that urinal is going to be nearby and very close to face height. Also urinals are only really usable by half the population.

Sanitary wipes might be a better plan. Even better if they can be made reusable, but that could be too much to hope for what with the need for yet another bin, and the propensity for confused people to put things in the wrong one.

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