I'm pretty sure she likes me already. Enough to stick around for the last 25+ years, anyway.
39+ years here. I think after another 21 years, I can be sure.
forcing someone to love you is unethical whether you use magic or just normal manipulation
What if the wish functions by cranking up your charisma score and making you cool / funny / whatever, functioning as a self-buff rather than an effect on another person?
It's much better to be with someone who picked you back.
I'm taken, but at another time, sure.
Nah, I'd do it the other way around. To actually have a crush myself and notice it.
No.
My immediate reaction is that if it's not genuinely sincere, it's meaningless.
It doesn't really matter if that's true or not - the mere fact that that was my first reaction means that it's a doubt that would continue to haunt me, and that's more than enough of a problem all by itself.
I’ve been married to my crush for over 25 years. I’m happy with what we’ve already got. Even when they don’t like me all that much. There’s usually a reason and it’s me that has to change.
Imagine living your life with someone who liked you even when they clearly shouldn’t. You’d lose not only the best parts of them but also the best parts of yourself.
I'm married, so I don't envision anything good coming from that. I'm not the type to be dangerously tempted, but it's still best if the option to cheat doesn't even arise.
No, I want him obsessed with me. I want drawbacks. I want him so in love with me I'm terrified for my safety.
Yes. Because, there's a friend who I know we'd mesh well together.
Can I have magic that fixes non-romantic relationships like sibling relations or like parent-child relations or like just friendships?
Can I have magic that make every country like each other and end all human conflicts?
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