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submitted 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) by Cris_Color@lemmy.world to c/fediverse@lemmy.world

The fediverse is small, and thats both a blessing and a curse - one of its several blessings is that in a smaller space we all individually have a bigger impact on what the culture of this space is like.

On this comm (and on lemmy broadly) there's a lot of discussion about how to grow the fediverse, what to improve, but an easy thing you can do for the fediverse is right in front of us-

  • Be kind

  • Ask people what they think, and why

  • Approach folks you disagree with with curiosity rather than hostility (EDIT: no, this is not specifically referring to Nazis. I get it, they're the first thing that comes to mind. I'm not telling you to approve of Nazis I'm just saying be kind to your fellow lemmites)

  • Engage sincerely

  • Ask yourself if there's something nice you can say

  • Make this small space worth being in

A platform lives or dies by what's available on said platform and often we have this conversation in the context of "content" or posts - and we may never have as much content as reddit does. But content and posts aren't the only thing this kind of platform offers- it also offers people. It offers community, and human interaction.

Culture and community is lemmy and the fediverse's biggest differentiator, and we all have a role to play in shaping the culture of this space.

The biggest thing you can do to help the fediverse is make it a place worth being.

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[-] macncheese@lemmy.world 1 points 3 months ago

Hey thanks, I appreciate your post :)

[-] Vile_port_aloo@lemmy.world 1 points 3 months ago

Give quiche a chance.

[-] kepix@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago

retail middle management vibes

[-] pHr34kY@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago

If I'm in a toxic mood, I go to reddit.

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[-] icedcoffee@lemm.ee 0 points 3 months ago

Love how the point of the post is “hey try to be nice” and everyone sounding off in the comments like “FUCK YOU AND FUCK THOSE SPECIFIC GUYS TOO”

Maybe more people should just post their reviews of vacuums here

[-] AwesomeLowlander@sh.itjust.works 1 points 3 months ago

Sucky! sucky! five dolla!

[-] MutilationWave@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

I have a shark vacuum, I don't know the model. It's really good for two reasons. First, it slides down low profile to go under things easily. Second, it has a three foot long detachable suck stick so you can get bigger stuff or get down in cracks. It's great for around the litter boxes. 4.5 stars because things could always suck more.

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[-] Fredthefishlord@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 3 months ago

The vast majority of people here are reddit refugees, raised on a website that encourages being a prentious dick(me inclusive, too often, though I'm trying to be better) it's unsurprising they'd take issue with the message

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[-] TabbsTheBat@pawb.social 0 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Hey this is a nice post, I wonder what the comments say :3 click

"Oh you think being kind is good? You're a fascist OP >:T. You can't make me vote republican"

[-] Tungsten5@lemm.ee 0 points 3 months ago

If I steal your identity I can make you vote republican. But I don’t like to steal. Maybe: lend it to me? I promise to give it back at the end.

[-] TabbsTheBat@pawb.social 0 points 3 months ago

Im not a US citizen (or a citizen of any other country that has a republican party), so that may be more work than you're signing up for on your end.. getting a citizenship can take ages :3

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[-] Casteyes@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago

I'm glad there's still sane people here.

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