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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/FaithlessnessMost944 on 2023-10-02 18:12:41.

Some context ive ended up with custody of my nieces a few months ago since my sister couldn't take care of them any more. While I was ok with taking them in temporarily until she got her stuff together so that the kids wouldn't be taken away by cps. However my job requires me to travel a ton and really doesn't leave much time for a work life balance even without having to take care of kids full time.

So I decided the best option would be to send the kids to full time boarding school out of state so. Ive already run this by my sister and shes fine with it and hasnt objected.

However ive getting a lot of calls from from their dad about wanting to see them and stuff and ive told him multiple times that i cant really do that for him. He doesn't have custody since he didnt try and get custody and let my sis have full custody.