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[-] jsomae@lemmy.ml 6 points 2 days ago

Women will leave him? I'm surprised to hear this.

[-] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

In my experience, gay men are much more poly-curious than straight women. So "bi" can easily be clocked as "cheating" from a certain perspective.

And there's definitely a lingering existential "what if my man's gay and he leaves me for another dude?" dread that I've seen more than one straight woman grapple with, particularly if the guy they're with is pushing 2+ on the Kinsey scale.

Tag in the Reddit-style "Dump him, he's not good for you!" social media vibe, and you'll get women who end a relationship because they would rather do the breaking-up than be on the receiving end.

[-] daggermoon@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago

"what if my man's gay and he leaves me for another dude?"

I hate stupid people. Like what if my "girlfriend is gay and leaves me for a woman?", "what if my girlfriend is straight and leaves me for a different man?", sounds like insecurity to me. Work on yourself and your insecurity and find someone who is loyal and commited to you. Their sexual orientation does not fucking matter and will not have any effect on weather or not they cheat on you if they do.

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[-] LainTrain@lemmy.dbzer0.com 17 points 3 days ago

It's definitely a thing but i doubt it's progressive women who are perpetuating it.

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