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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/NationalParticular36 on 2023-09-16 22:28:12.

I’ve been in a relationship with a girl for several months now. We just bought a house and moved in together and got engaged. She’s a 5 years older then me and she has 2 young kids from a previous relationship. She’s currently in a custody battle with her ex and doesn’t want him to have custody. Only very limited visitation. She works nights 3 days a week and I take care of her kids. I’m starting to realize she’s really lazy. Sometimes she’s off during the day and I’m still stuck with the kids. There 2 year old twins so they are a lot of work. They also don’t listen to me and there a little wild. She’ll just go out and not say when she’s coming back and I could be stuck with them for hours. It happens all the time. We went to a party at her families house and I had to chase them around the wholes time while she didn’t do anything it was really humiliating. She doesn’t really have a good reason why she doesn’t want her ex to have the kids, I suspect it’s more to get back at him for dumping her. I want to tell her I’m done being her babysitter. I know she’ll be mad.