Eh, went to my first concert by myself. Lost my spot when I had to pee and got to watch my favorite band from side stage.
It's not that I can't do these things alone. It's that I'd rather have someone there with me.
I would go even further. I enjoy things much more, when I can share the experience with others. I could go out alone, yes, but why should I?
I hear you and definitely agree that many activities are more fun with company, but if I only did things when I had someone to do those things with, I'd never get to do anything, definitely never anything new. Why should I let the lack of companions prevent me from having the experience?
For example, I wanted to go crabbing, but none of my friends wanted to go, so I decided to go on my own, and got to share the experience with the other people out crabbing on the pier, and even exchanged phone numbers with one of them, so now I have someone to go with next time. I used to go out alone to bars, concerts, festivals, etc., all the time and always made new friends, in fact for a while I preferred doing some of those solo so that I could just totally get lost in the moment.
It's strange to me that this would be news to anyone. That said, as someone who has had so many wild experiences all alone, I eventually had the epiphany that none of it matters if you have noone to share it with.
I am several decades old and I still have to remind myself I'm allowed to go have fun by myself.
Come to Japan. Here, they have all sorts of seating at places specifically for people to be alone.
You're making me want to book that plane ticket even more. The main thing I'm struggling with is deciding where I would go. If you don't mind me asking, any favorite locations or cities?
I go to restaurants alone when I'm out and about by myself, because a man's gotta eat. But why would I choose to go to a movie theater by myself? I can just stay home and watch a movie for free, while being more comfortable. I go to the movies specifically for the event which is shared with the person/people I go with. Do some people go to the movies just to see the movie? Is the bigger screen that important?
Is the bigger screen that important?
Depends on the movie. If it's some drama or something a normal sized screen isn't much different experience but like a huge action movie with large scale stuff happening the bigger screen adds to the experience. I went and saw Godzilla Minus One in the theater and it was amazing. Maybe if I had a nice home theater set up it would be different but if I'm not watching a movie at the theater it's usually on my PC monitor at home or my small TV.
I have a 65" OLED, hooked up to a 5.1 surround sound system with floorstanding speakers, and a reclining couch, so I really only notice a big difference if it's IMAX or if it's 3D.
Sometimes the people I enjoy movies didn't want to see the same movies, so I have gone alone to see something on the big screen. Not often since large flatscreens made most movies more enjoyable at home, but I would go slone if the situation came up again.
Honestly being alone or with people isn't that much different when I'm watchijg a movie, unless they are distracting. The only thing I get out of going with others is talking about the movie sfter.
Do some people go to the movies just to see the movie? Is the bigger screen that important?
Maybe they want to see it as soon as it's released instead of waiting for it to be available to stream. Also yes, some movies are definitely better and more immersive on the big screen with the big sound systems, like space or adventure-type ones with special effects.
Yes, I enjoy movies with striking visuals or music much more on the big screen. I also go to the cinema alone from time to time. I'm rather introverted, so I don't mind the solitary experience. I do like to later talk about the movie with someone who saw it too, though.
That and the sound I think? Maybe people enjoy being in a crowd while being entertained? I don't know: it's not for me.
The only thing the theater has that I don't have is Atmos. I have a pretty awesome surround sound system at home. I know most people haven't spent the time and money to set their house up the way I have though. I've thought about adding Atmos, but my ceiling is slanted, so it would be a challenge.
Movie theaters always seemed like such weird places to go to in general. I mean I get it if you go with a large friend group or to see a movie that has a lot of large scale scenes but for pretty much everything else it has literally zero advantages to make up for its major downsides.
Other people being noisy, no ability to pause, shitty audio quality due to bad placement, expensive tickets and food, having to go there and having to be there at a specific time, usually not being able to watch the movie in the original audio even when you do speak the language, pre-movie ads,...
People always talk about it as this great experience but I feel there is a reason they have to put the movies in there first because otherwise very few people would be willing to suffer through it all.
Did you forget that within living memory options for watching movies at home were limited to tiny televisions with poor sound, and what was either broadcast (possibly with commercials) or what you could rent at a store?
"Always seemed like such a weird place to go" if "always" is limited to like "after 2010" maybe.
It is normal. Just do it. People who have an issue with this are creating their own problems. It's a YOU problem.
The restaurant one makes sense. Don't wanna get your food poisoned when you need to walk away to use the bathroom.
There’s nothing stopping you from asking another adult from taking a picture of you without your phone held up in the middle of it like a caveman brandishing the first burning branch.
I want to go to the comfy movies but all the seating is loveseat couches. I might have to share that with a stranger. So anyways I heard WoW is good again?
On the other hand, I'm autistic and have no frame of reference for some of the things I want to do. How can I just show somewhere alone without knowing the social norms?
Most people aren't paying any attention to you at all. Unless you're being loud or making a lot of quick movements they probably don't even notice you beyond the generic recognition that another person is present.
As long as you aren't talking to yourself loudly in the theater or eating popcorn at a volume comparable to the Dolby, literally nobody will fucking care. In both cases, the solution is to close your god damned mouth.
I go to restaurants, concerts and other shit by myself all the time. I go some Sporting events by myself, even out of town. In fact, I'm going to take a nostalgia road trip and watch an indoor soccer match.
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