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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Fancy_Technology2774 on 2023-09-20 18:40:15.

I(m26) started dating my gf (f27) two years ago and now we also living together from last 4 5 months. So yesterday was my gf's birthday and i did small celebration for her at midnight. I bought cake, bouquet and small gift for her(apple watch) and everything went nicely. I also had dinner planned in my head but my gf's very close friend was in the city so she asked me if we both can go for birthday dinner with her 3 friends. I happily accepted because it was her birthday.

In evening we had her birthday dinner and her friends had also brought cake and balloons for her again celebration went pretty nicely. After dinner waiter came up with bill and handed it to my gf and she paid for it. After saying goodbyes to everyone when we were in car my gf said something really weird(out of her character) that I should have payed the bill in restaurant it would have made really good impression about me in front of her friends because (I make 2-3 time more than her). Not gonna lie but it was hurtful to hear that so I said my friends frequently spends time at our place so you should do more chores/cooking around our house in front of them so it would make really good impression of you too.

As you can guess this made her upset and remaining night was not good. So was I in the wrong to make that comparison.