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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/rocknglow13 on 2023-09-21 23:31:37.

So I recently got married to the love of my life. I had my niece nephew and my husband's niece and nephew in the wedding. My family...mom, dad, brother, niece, nephew, and SIL flew in from where they live. My SIL and I have never really gotten along, I don't know why, we just haven't. My mother who is amazing has decided that my wedding was going to be a dry wedding. I didn't consent to that and said as much. My SIL has a drinking problem and is just plain bitchy around me. She wouldnt even participate in family photos and literally screamed at me 3 times. I ignored it. After a while some of the guests asked if they could bring out some alcohol I said sure. My wedding was 3-? And I asked that alcohol be brought out at 8 pm and anyone under 21 leave by 730. My SIL stayed around and when the alcohol came out my mom had a fit about it. I looked at my mom and said I have given into your whims and hers my whole entire time of knowing SIL. Today is my fucking day. I don't give a shit about her alcoholism. My mom looked so sad so reddit am I the asshole?