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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Traditional-Plum8958 on 2023-09-22 02:08:49.

i (45f) have a daughter (14f) and i have been raising her by myself since she was 7. i love her so much but we've never really gotten along. anyway we live in the "hood" as you may call it ever since my daughters father left us 7 years ago. i have been getting more financial support from my boyfriend so now im able to find a nice place in a better town.

the problem comes where i found a really nice apartment in a town about 30 minutes away. ive looked up this town and drove there with my daughter. and i loved it. my daughter on the other hand did not. she said it looked boring and depressing which i wont deny its pretty small. my daughter and i looked up the school ratings in this town and its only 1% low income and 97% white (i am white blonde hair pale skin, while my daughter is black, curly hair) my daughter was not happy about this and asked me to recondsider.

i said no because this is what is best for us, she told me to "hop off" and said "i dont wanna live in this bum ass white town" and that "your white bruh u dont get it" i told her that thats not how i raised her. and i told her we are going and thats not changing. i heard her in her room trying not to cry.

everyone i asked said they have no opinion. i might be ta because shes expirienced bullying before and this poor/mostly black area we live in is all shes ever known. But she did disrespect me and prejudice against any race is not ok. AITA?