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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/TopicFlimsy1304 on 2023-09-22 05:16:49.

In my younger 20s I had gotten married to Amanda and we were together for five years before divorcing. We had no kids. Flash forward almost 20 years later and I've remarried with kids.

When my eldest Jack started middle school, I found out that Amanda had a daughter named Lee the same age as Jack and was going to be going to the same school. My son and Lee had shared friends and because of that me and Amanda would run into each other. We were friendly but it was super weird.

I found out that Jack and Lee are actually dating. I told Jack that I was actually married to Lee's mom when I was much younger and therefore it's wholly inappropriate and weird to be dating Lee. He didn't believe me because I'm gay so I showed him my divorce decree. He said he really doesn't care and the whole thing was weird. I said I do care and he can't date my ex-wife's daughter. That's weird to be dating her.

Edit: They're not in middle school. They're juniors in high school now.