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I was in an incident that led to people complaining about me here and by extension in Ask Lemmy, one which I explained my perspective on elsewhere. Then, when sharing my perspective, I was asked by a certain Blaze to share it in YPTB, only for those in charge there to give what amounted to a signal of disregard for it and to take it elsewhere. Going by their own words, I then shared it in !fediverselore@lemmy.ca as the only close alternative available, which, as a part of their own "rules subtext", sometimes allows this, and the person, if not all of those who help with YPTB, proceeded to drop by anyways and scold me because "YTPB has specific posting guidelines in the sidebar".

The implication here is false, at least by my definition of the word "false", and he even alluded to that after it began to be discussed elaborately, albeit before using an appeal to the masses (story of my life) and say "most people seem to understand", which ignores consensus of me and the aforementioned Blaze (as much as the "the truth we all wanted to speak" remark ignores not everyone had that issue). Notice how I responded with "I can spot rules broken by the other person’s thread more easily than I can spot rules broken by mine" and got only thumbs down for it and no responses, yet when I actually dissected the rules piece by piece in front of him to point out that any rule I supposedly broke wasn't there, which even the person who recommended I make the discussion in the first place (the aforementioned Blaze) agreed was a "fair point to be honest", the mod then delved into the concept of "unspoken rules" as an excuse for himself and said he didn't want to "rules-lawyer", which not only disproves what he said about "specific posting guidelines" being "in the sidebar" that supposedly explained what I did wrong, but proved a point I commonly mention about people in different places including here always being uncritical and unwilling to see things for themselves and just taking peoples' word for things (and about that, to respond to Cypher's last reply, intellectual =/= intelligent). A part of that is it also suggests, by extension, that the quantity of thumbs down you garner is unreliable as consistently meaning anything, unless the rule is actually to apply gladiator logic and say a thumbs down signals mercy, as indicated by the very Roman-esque culture around here. I guess all this time, I was being praised and didn't realize it?

This idea of "unspoken rules" and "reading between the lines" seems to be a common theme here because everyone seems to think that concept is valid, and they think that whether you're akin to an outcast is defined by the norms you follow. This makes me curious to ask... hypothetically, if I get all PTB gradings from everyone because I couldn't read the "unspoken rules" or anticipate mod discretion, what if I were to go to the places I have authority over and ban everyone who says or has said anything positive or supportive about Luigi Mangione or what he did? Would I be able to accomplish this without being called a PTB? After all, that is how this all started, and again, that would be an "unspoken rule" on its own that can be chalked up to mod discretion, now wouldn't it? Those are the terms.

I await your choice.

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[-] Scary_le_Poo@beehaw.org 12 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Fuck me, this dude loves to hear himself talk.

This word soup is fucking trash. Let me do everyone here a favor:

This post is highly verbose, filled with tangential points, and jumps between topics, making it difficult to follow. Here’s a breakdown of what the person seems to be saying:

  1. The Incident: The poster was involved in an online situation where their behavior led to complaints in various forums (e.g., Lemmy, Ask Lemmy).

  2. Their Defense: They shared their perspective on the incident in another forum or blog and were encouraged by someone named Blaze to post it in a specific community ("YPTB"). However, moderators of YPTB rejected their post and directed them to share it elsewhere.

  3. Actions Taken: Following the moderators' advice, they posted it in another community ("!fediverselore"), which they claim has some precedent for allowing such discussions. Despite this, the moderators from YPTB showed up there to criticize them for not following the original community's "specific posting guidelines."

  4. Rules Debate: The poster argues that the supposed "posting guidelines" they were accused of breaking either don’t exist or weren’t clearly stated. They tried to dissect the rules piece by piece to show they didn’t violate any, and even Blaze agreed with them.

  5. "Unspoken Rules": The moderators, according to the poster, eventually justified their criticism by referring to "unspoken rules" or norms not explicitly stated. This concept frustrates the poster because it undermines their defense and supports what they see as a subjective or inconsistent enforcement of rules.

  6. Broader Grievance: The poster feels ostracized and believes that the community or moderators operate under a "groupthink" mentality, where dissenting views (like theirs) are dismissed or punished. They also criticize the practice of using downvotes or negative feedback as a measure of validity or correctness.

  7. Hypothetical Question: They sarcastically propose a scenario where they could ban everyone in their own spaces for supporting someone named Luigi Mangione, claiming this would be no different from how the moderators are applying their discretion under "unspoken rules." They are questioning the fairness of such norms.

  8. Final Thoughts: The post ends with an open-ended challenge or provocation, suggesting that the community or moderators’ logic is flawed and asking how they will respond to this critique.

TL;DR:

The poster feels unfairly treated due to vague or non-existent rules being used to criticize their actions. They believe the moderators and community enforce norms subjectively, based on group consensus or unspoken rules, rather than clear guidelines. They see this as hypocritical and are challenging the logic behind it. The post is laden with frustration, sarcasm, and an air of intellectual superiority.

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[-] catloaf@lemm.ee 21 points 5 days ago

I have no idea what you're talking about or what your issue is. There's a lot of words and oblique references but very little actual information.

[-] quirzle@lemmy.zip 12 points 5 days ago

You have no idea how much better your comment made me feel after having to re-read this post a handful of times to figure wtf was being complained about.

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[-] Flatworm7591@lemmy.dbzer0.com 20 points 5 days ago

YDI

The comment from @ProfessorOwl_PhD@hexbear.net on your original post before it was removed hit the nail on the head imo:

I think the way you talk around the issue (e.g. “a man named after a certain plumber”) really demonstrates an underlying understanding that you’re in the wrong here: you’re avoiding direct confrontation with him and his motives in order to paint this as a simple murder. You linked to excuses about how Brian Thompson was actually innocent, because denying life saving medical coverage isn’t technically the same thing as personally murdering them, despite having the same effect. You paint agreement with his actions with pledging direct allegiance to him personally.

There are legitimate arguments around not lionising his actions (as Hexbear discussed at the time), but you’re just getting upset about civility and direct violence disrupting the indirect violence of capitalism.

Let's get real here. The State has a monopoly on violence in most countries. That's one of the ways they keep control of the population. That's why it's perceived as such a threat to the State when ordinary people use violence to challenge the status quo. The State made it perfectly legal for people to like Brian Thompson to deny life saving treatments and procedures from the sick and dying in order to turn a larger profit margin. That is an example of state-sanctioned violence. All those involved should be in prison and held accountable. But they never will be, because State is organized around protecting the rich and powerful from the consequences of their deeply immoral, unethical and (ought to be illegal) acts that turn a profit. Don't forget that slavery was legal and Nazi concentration camps were legal at the time. That's why your moralizing position rings hollow. Because all you are doing in effect is defending the right of the state to continue with it's immoral agenda of exploiting the sick and poor for profit, without ever having to accept any consequences for it.

When the justice system is corrupt, when the laws are written by lobbyists, when politicians from both sides of the aisle are bought and paid for by corporations, what other option do we have to resist the abuses of the rich and powerful? This is why people consider Luigi a bit of a folk hero. Because he gave people a bit of hope that real change was possible, and that (at least occasionally) the rich and powerful might get what's coming to them.

On another topic, your original blog post was imo not in keeping sidebar rules, especial rule 1:

Post only about bans or other sanctions from mod(s).

It seems to me you are more upset that basically nobody here agrees with your position on this topic, rather than because of any PTB issues.

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[-] TexMexBazooka@lemm.ee 20 points 5 days ago

You have got to condense this down, use some periods. Run it through chat gpt maybe. But it’s nearly incomprehensible.

I agree. I can parse most texts regardless of content and difficulty, but i had to read this multiple times and jump through hoops to get a hint of what happened.

  • Make a timeline of events (who did what when and where?)
  • Define your grievance for us to judge after timeline
  • Don't redirect to outside sources, at least not inline - list the links at the end of the post
  • Cut out the flavor text (Blaze does not need an adjective every time he's mentioned, even tho Blaze probably likes it)
  • Break the text up visually into more paragraphs
  • Less stuff in parenthesis, cut it out or integrate it if important

you can add the stuff that you removed AFTER everyone knows the gist of what happened.

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[-] lvxferre@mander.xyz 18 points 5 days ago

Lenny, you got the same problem as I do: writing huge walls of text, with really long sentences and paragraphs, that are really hard to parse. People lose track of what you're talking about, so simply paraphrasing excerpts won't help; you probably need to restructure the whole thing, if you want to be understood.

To make it worse, you're redirecting the reader over and over, both through links and through indirect references.

This is on-topic here because I don't think that db0 was power-tripping, but I don't think that you deserved it. I think that it was just miscommunication; under a quick glance your post linking to buzzly.art doesn't seem to be about rule enforcement, it sounds more like a rant plus request for advice.

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[-] quirzle@lemmy.zip 14 points 5 days ago

Objectively, "Luigi did nothing wrong" could be defending what he allegedly did, but could also be supporting the idea that he's been falsely accused.

I also agree with the mod saying your initial post didn't fit this community given the written rules on the sidebar, without factoring any "unspoken rules" or whatever the fuck you're babbling about.

As an aside, I really dislike your rambling writing style.

I'm nobody, and my opinion isn't especially relevant. But since you asked, I think you're wrong for the initial ban and having your last post removed was the right call by the mod here.

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[-] TropicalDingdong@lemmy.world 11 points 5 days ago

Seems like the right place to bring the complaint, but I'm not gonna click forty links to figure out what you are actually complaining about.

Cliff notes buddy. Maybe one link to follow. 250 characters or less.

[-] catloaf@lemm.ee 11 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Especially when a bunch of them are videos. I see that, I'm immediately hitting the back button. I have precious little mental energy these days, I can't afford to spend too much of it on my petty internet drama.

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