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submitted 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) by PhilipTheBucket@ponder.cat to c/yepowertrippinbastards@lemmy.dbzer0.com

So, I saw a report from one of my users. They reported:

https://ponder.cat/post/1594852/1813842

For the reason:

Unreasonable fighting with everyone in every simple post

I think that's ridiculous, so I talked with them about it. Posting private communications is frowned upon I guess, but long story short, they weren't receptive. I've decided to ban the account.

IMO the general culture on Lemmy is that users are entitled to their free account and everyone needs to be careful and circumspect about limiting that entitlement in any way, but I don't see it that way. I don't think it's a requirement for me to provide hosting space for anyone who wants to use my stuff as a jumping-off point for abuse of Lemmy's systems, and isn't apologetic or receptive when I talk with them about not doing that. The fact that it's in service of harassing FlyingSquid in particular is just icing on the cake, since my perception is that people like to harass him apparently for no legitimate reason at all (with this as an example).

AITA?

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[-] _cryptagion@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 5 months ago

since my perception is that people like to harass him apparently for no legitimate reason at all

You don't end up as one of the two most talked about PTBs in this community with there being "no reason at all".

[-] PhilipTheBucket@ponder.cat 1 points 5 months ago

My general approach is to look into things, when one or a bunch of people claim that it's true. Often it is true. Sometimes it is not. Usually, the times when it is not are a lot more interesting.

I don't plan to abandon that approach and replace it with "if a whole bunch of people say something then it automatically must be true." That way is easier, of course, and you can go with it if you like. I'll stick to my approach.

[-] _cryptagion@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 5 months ago

The receipts are all there, if you care to look. Nobody has deleted them.

But in this case, despite your underhanded implication, let’s just admit you have a preconceived notion and aren’t interested in the many documented instances of FlyingSquid and jordanlund being assholes. You aren’t going to look into this.

[-] PhilipTheBucket@ponder.cat 1 points 5 months ago

Why are you talking to me about this? Pretty much every time it comes up, I ask people for examples, and then I go and look at them. I actually have a bookmark saved right now for a good example of FS being kind of a jerk that I found all on my own and thought might be relevant, at some point. Why did you come back to sort of hassle me about this on a week-old topic?

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