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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Additional-Hat-9674 on 2023-09-30 22:47:12.

Long story short: My husband Fred (30m) and I (28f) got married last month. His sister Sarah (40f) has a history of not coming to family events or saying she would go and then not showing up. Fred told her that she is important to him and really wanted her at our wedding. She said she would come, and as you guessed, she didn't make it.

She didnt send a text or anything to even say congrats. She finally messaged him yesterday to apologize. After some prying, she admitted that she had the day off but she just forgot about it. Fred told her that he was disappointed and didn't want to talk to her. She wouldn't leave him alone so he blocked her.

She messaged me saying that she needs to talk to Fred, or that I should talk to him to get him to unblock her. I told her that I would not be doing that because she knows she was wrong and he was hurt. I told her that he will contact her when he is ready and to not initiate contact with us. She is now calling me names saying that I am in his ear and I'm making him avoid her etc. She's saying I should be trying to help their relationship. AITA for not encouraging Fred to speak to her and telling her to stop contacting us?