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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Tonkaowww on 2023-10-01 05:49:38.

She(26f) and I(26m) grew up together. At first I was really looking forward to it. Then she came to me and said that I 'must get laser removal for those damn acne scars.' I told her I can't afford to spend that much money on stuff that I don't actually need right now, but she said I need to look good for the wedding pictures. She knew it's expensive since she's had this sort of treatment herself. Then she insisted on it further, telling me I would undergo the treatment if I truly care about her.

It was the combination of the insinuation that I would ruin the photos without the laser removal and the fact that she was asking me to spend that much money which made me say the line in the title. She looked really hurt, saying that I didn't have to be so mean about it. Was I mean to her?