That’s a really insightful point! The idea of presenting your true self early in the relationship is key because it sets a solid foundation for authenticity and trust. If you're constantly putting on a facade, eventually, it becomes exhausting to keep up the act. People are naturally drawn to authenticity, and the sooner you show your true self, the better your partner can decide if they are truly compatible with you—not just the version you're presenting.

If the relationship is based on a version of yourself that’s not real or sustainable, it will eventually crack under the weight of that pressure. On the flip side, if a partner genuinely loves and appreciates you for who you are—without all the extra effort to impress—then it can create a stronger, more resilient bond.