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Have Americans always been this stupid?
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this post was submitted on 25 Mar 2025
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I'm willing to bet one of the largest factors is the isolation we now live in. We used to have third places on every corner, we interacted with our neighbors, and public transport made us connect during commutes. We also relied on talking to people for most of our news and information and generally just were forced to be part of a community, or multiple.
Now we drive alone in a car to work, drive alone back to our house that's isolated from others and don't speak to neighbors, we have no third places left, and we get all our information from the internet or TV. Most people don't have a community larger than a handful of close friends. We can't organize and we don't see the struggles other people are going through or help each other out. There's no social bonds, and everyone only looks out for themselves.
I order to progress, we need to figure out how to form communities again. We need to be able to organize. This is all constructed to keep us thinking about ourselves as an individual rather than the collective us. We think about what I can do, which is pretty minor, not what we can do, which is almost anything we want.
I was raised in a rural area. The amount of friends I made in life after forty years is...zero. Aside from a sibling, I don't have anyone to count on. I am also too poor to afford visiting bars or other social things, so I can't learn how to be around people, let alone establish ties. It is my belief that America's shitty economy is the source of these issues, because a person can't blossom if they don't have the fiscal agency to escape a tiny bubble.
The internet let me develop as a person, but that can only go so far. I can't afford risks, such as trying beer, an escort to lose my virginity, or travel. Poverty is a prison without walls.
That sucks. If I were you I'd try to move to somewhere more dense and it could help you out. I know, easier said than done. You can try applying for jobs online and maybe get lucky though.
Good luck out there!
The internet should help with this, but we need to run our own stuff and not use corpo websites
To an extent, but it isn't a replacement. Talking to random strangers online is not the same as talking to real local people.
Indeed but it helps and doesn't involve urban planning changes or anything that would take serious construction effort