While I agree with you, I don't think it's fair to characterize all of society as misandrist based on that. There's a significant number of things that you're ignoring or are not privy to, where women are harmed by men. The patriarchy isn't just this fantasy that feminists made up, it's a real thing, and while not as powerful as it used to be it still harms women substantially.

I think it's fairer to say that some parts of our culture are misandrist, some misogynist. And on the whole, women have it worse - but men also have it pretty bad.