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Such generalizing statements are blatantly untrue, hypocritical, and harmful. People don't use social media without a reason. Everything a human does is meet their needs, both psychological and physiological. When humans resort to social media it means they resort to social interaction and whatever other needs they may have like having feelings validated, visual/audio/etc. stimulation, but that doesn't sound sensational enough, that's not enough to scapegoat a group of people
Ok but research indicates that it fails to actually meet their long-term needs. This is actually a really confusing take, if humans always do what meets their needs then we wouldn't have any issues at all? We TRY to do what we think will meet them, but we're often mistaken, and this is an example of that.
Also no. Addiction happens exactly when the needs are met more than usual, hence "social media addiction", and it's not the social media's fault, it's not "TikTok Instagram bad". It's weaponized misconceptions about mental health that are creating this issue in the first place
Edit: PSA - more than usual does not mean enough
Did I say that it does meet needs long term? What was the sample? What was the methodology? What communities were they participating in? How were they participating? What were the needs? Did they have a neurodivergency? What were their surroundings like? What was their childhood like? Do they go to therapy? What therapeutic practice did they do in therapy?
Why are you asking like I was talking about a single person? Like... "What therapeutic practice did they do in therapy?"? Is this your idea of a counterargument?
No. I'm asking questions about the research you're referencing. Nothing more.