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[-] _____@lemm.ee 9 points 2 weeks ago

It's called racism. In America when you're not white the question of where you come from becomes. "no but really where are you from?" as in "what is your ancestry?"

This is important to Americans because they use race as a baseline for how to treat you.

This is why the lady in question is Mexican to Americans before being an American.

[-] Baguette@lemm.ee 5 points 2 weeks ago

Just like how terms like asian american came into existence. Not fully accepted as american, not fully accepted as asian.

America is both a melting pot of cultures and also one of the most racist places to exist

[-] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago

It's more of a salad than a melting pot.

[-] ExtantHuman@lemm.ee 3 points 2 weeks ago

In America, that's also a question white people get. Melting pot with several historically recent waves of mass migration tends to keep those questions alive.

[-] _____@lemm.ee 1 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Yep, it's funny about the levels of "whiteness" you can be.

I'm not white and when I told this to some Ethiopian & Somalian school friends growing up they told me "well, you're not black".

What I meant to say is: White people don't treat me as though I'm white. Which is really the important detail.

It's also very interesting to have people try to decode my race/origin. Some people have guessed middle eastern, french?, Italian, First Nations.

This is why I said I've noticed that some people put a lot of emphasis on your race (so they ask you) and it is important to then for how they perceive you.

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