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Stack overflow is almost dead
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This is a most excellent place for technology news and articles.
I've definitely had this happen to be before. It's annoying.
What I do in that case is proactively say:
Sometimes it helps.
Also, if you see people being assholes you can report them. There's a flag for "unfriendly or unkind". I've definitely used that before.