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Everything I downvoted was because I genuinely do not think it's good. Like meat is not going to cure cancer.

I actually really like eating meat I just try to life a life that gives others room to enjoy this earth too without mutually destroying it.

Please tell me how I am the asshole :)

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[-] daw@feddit.org 2 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

That was the only comment I voted on. Because I did not see the person being helpful based on their posts. I did not vote spree the other comment sections. I did vote on the posts... I would not call that downvoting of posts in the community kneejerk. The statement the mod gave is not true I checked to make absolutely sure.

Thank you for elaborating though.

[-] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 5 points 4 days ago

Everything I downvoted was because I genuinely do not think it's good.

That's what you said in your post. Everything implies that you voted on more than one thing.

I'm not sure why you would down vote multiple posts instead of blocking a community, but it does change things a little as long as it wasn't blanket voting where you just went through and hit the down button arbitrarily on a long line of posts. If that's what you were doing, it doesn't change the YDI part, because that's inevitably going to get you banned from any community at some point. The question would become one of threshold; how many did you arbitrarily down vote rather than the fact of doing it at all.

If you just down voted them as you came across them scrolling the all feed, you'd only have hit maybe five or six based on the slow posting of that community. So, if it's more than that, you had to have gone to the community directly specifically to down vote, and that's pretty shitty behavior, ban worthy at that.

If it was less than that, then jet absolutely power tripped. You can't determine the intent of the user from less than a handful of votes, particularly if they're recent posts.

But, hey, that's what this community is about, figuring out where the boundaries of what lemmy as a whole consider acceptable mores of moderation and user behavior.

[-] daw@feddit.org 1 points 4 days ago

No I did go to the community to check it out, that part tracks, yes I downvoted a few posts. The cooking stuff I downvoted I also do not agree with (the beef chart excludes the head from the edible parts, the ribeye cooling one is in my opinion way over the top, a simple cast iron skillet does the job. The blended steak, meat bagels and meat cinnamon rolls I don't think are a good idea. The brisquet price comparison I also do not agree with as I think that price does not make that big of a difference in comparison to the way to cook it, but on that one I definitely get how I should have been more open minded).

I think the interesting part is wether I should be allowed to be in opposition on most of a community or not. I think that we are a community on Lemmy as a whole and that it is ok to discuss things. I can still see why brigading is problematic. Then it comes down to the definition of good faith which is arguable and there it is interesting wether there can be good faith in participating in a community whilst being opposed to the main lines. I am not even in fundamental opposition about eating (and enjoying!) meat so I would have guessed that I acted in good faith. I guess I could see why jet did get offended and I guess I take a more lenient approach on the two Comms I mod. That being said there is probably significantly less contestation around the communities I mod.

[-] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 5 points 4 days ago

Assuming honesty in all that (and that is what I'm assuming, no reason to do otherwise), I definitely call that good faith. Absolutely.

I also tend to think that opposition can be done with respect and decency (with the glaring exception of bigotry that deserves no respect, but that's off topic and I only mention it to hopefully avoid the watabouts). I think my opposition to some of the posts and comments in the carnivore communities have been done respectfully, I've at least tried to be respectful.

Mind you, it's been a while since I interacted much there, since I've pretty much said all I can say without beating a dead horse, which I prefer to avoid.

Also, I really appreciate the way you've approached this entire discussion here. A lot of folks just want validation of their emotional response to whatever mod action they're posting about, so it's really cool when people fully engage in wrangling with the broader subject of how to approach moderation and user interactions with mods. At risk of going off topic, this community has changed my approach to moderation both on and off lemmy. I've learned a lot here about when to act quickly and decisively, and when to take a more gentle approach.

[-] jet@hackertalks.com 5 points 4 days ago

That being said there is probably significantly less contestation around the communities I mod.

That's fair, I'm happy to unban you if I have your word that you will be less hostile going forward. Yes - I consider downvoting to be hostility

The Carnivore community gets lots of negative attention, right now we are transitioning to a new instance so all the previous blocks people had don't work and its a sensitive time.

[-] daw@feddit.org 2 points 4 days ago

No, if downvotes with things I don't agree with are considered hostile I don't think it's a good idea. I don't think I want to interact with this carnivore sub on an ongoing basis but I was interested in wether general participation on Lemmy regardless of the community is welcomed or if bubble building is the new meta.

Pretty sure any community would consider it hostile if you only downvote and never upvote in that comm

[-] ryathal@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 days ago

You could probably be just fine down voting only if you did it judiciously. Down voting a weeks worth of posts in a day is always going to look spammy.

[-] jet@hackertalks.com 2 points 4 days ago

Fair enough, i'm glad you have the resolution you wanted from this YPTB post.

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