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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Underwater_23 on 2023-08-23 00:38:18.

So my gf is older than me and has a 3 year child. They are staying with me for the week. I think her daughter is cool and we get along well. I take them both out to dinner, I buy them whatever they like. They only thing I asked was hey by midnight can you put your 3 year old daughter to sleep? Her daughter will be on our room till 2 am wanting to play and talk, mind you I have to wake up around 6:30/7 am for work. The lack of sleep has been getting to me, and I asked my gf for that arrangement. Upon asking her, she stated that I shouldn’t let her daughter being up stop me from sleeping. Which I proceeded to say, we’ll she’s in the room with us till very late. She proceeds to say well if I don’t like it, then she’ll just go to the other room with her daughter bc they both like to stay up late. And then says “maybe you’re just not meant to be with someone with a kid?!” Am i the asshole? I feel like me saying if she could put her daughter to bed by midnight is fair deal. When I’m reality in my own personal opinion a three year old shouldn’t be up that late. But it’s not my kid so I don’t say anything, I’m just saying can you please meet me in the middle while y’all stay at my house? So Reddit am I wrong here?