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this post was submitted on 22 Jul 2025
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No worries at all! I wasn't offended, just pointing out that others might find that wording confusing since it makes it sound like a choice to become what you are instead of a choice to accept yourself and embrace it. I agree though it's a rather meaningless distinction in the grand scheme of things: I chose to change the way I identify, even if my identity didn't actually change. I chose to embrace myself for who I am, rather than continue fighting the dispair and depression of living the lie I wasnt even aware was a lie.
I learned of gender dysphoria and realized I suffered from it and needed treatment. Did that turn me queer? Who cares, it's the moment I pivoted toward being the best me I can be! And that's what matters :-)
Thanks for being an ally, it's really clear you're on our side even if words are jard and you should never let anyone try and tell you that isn't good enough.