You're the one saying there is aggression and abuse here. There's none of the stylistic choices to the bubbles or lettering that usually indicate yelling. The lettering is consistent and even with only a mild bolding on "no pickles" indicating a very even tone with slight emphasis on the bolded words.

Oh no she's got her hands on her hips and a slightly annoyed expression, but nothing indicating any movement or action. Nothing indicating she's doing anything more than standing in that position. There's no lines drawn coming from her mouth indicating she's yelling, her hands are at her sides very non-aggressively.

Literally everything about the context in which this is presented implies that the situation is that she just spoke up calmly but firmly. YOU are the only one ascribing any kind of ill intent to this. Your stated reason? checks notes her stance and her facial expression... and I'm supposed to... not read this as you just saying "Woman Angy... Woman Wrong"

Riiiiight.