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[-] JohnDClay@sh.itjust.works 23 points 2 years ago

Why not text 'wanna talk sometime'? A call demands an immediate response, so reserve it for things that demand immediate responses.

[-] LaurelRerun@lemmy.ml 13 points 2 years ago

No it doesn't. Just don't pick up the phone. If it's important they'll text you to pick up the phone. There's a reason the terms "phone tag" and "screening calls" exist.

[-] JohnDClay@sh.itjust.works 12 points 2 years ago

But you don't know the relative importance of what they're telling vs what you're doing. A text gives more information than just seeing your receiving a call.

[-] LaurelRerun@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 years ago

Damn dude, it's not that big a deal. Just don't pick up the phone. If it's important they'll find a way to let you know.

[-] stebo02@sopuli.xyz 5 points 2 years ago

if you don't pick up they'll get mad and say you never pick up your phone

[-] LaurelRerun@lemmy.ml 0 points 2 years ago

This is true. It's what I tell my mom because she never picks up her phone! ๐Ÿ˜„

[-] Honytawk@lemmy.zip 3 points 2 years ago

You will feel terrible if you don't pick up the phone and it turns out to be something important, like being able to hear the last words of your grandma or something.

Texting is a lot less of a big deal than a phone call is.

[-] LaurelRerun@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago

A situation like that has only happened to me once... and they didn't call, they emailed me.

[-] JohnDClay@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 years ago

I don't mind much. I just don't call because it wastes people's time. But I don't want to let it go to voice mail because then it wastes their time.

[-] curiousaur@reddthat.com 1 points 2 years ago

Calling is only a waste of time if your conversationalism isn't worth the time. You see the self own don't you?

[-] JohnDClay@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 years ago

It wastes time if they're doing something more important and can't talk right now. Not everything I want to talk about is of earth shattering importance, so it isn't always worth their time if their doing something that is more important. If their time is more valuable sometimes, why is it bad that my conversation or question is less valuable than that? Sometimes I just want to catch up.

[-] curiousaur@reddthat.com 0 points 2 years ago

If they are doing something important they won't answer.

Again, you don't need something earth shattering to talk to someone. It's called being social.

And if you both care about each other, just catching up IS important.

[-] JohnDClay@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 years ago

Sure. But it's easier and more information dense to know if you should pick up from a text rather than from just seeing an incoming call.

[-] LaurelRerun@lemmy.ml 0 points 2 years ago

Ah, see in my opinion going to voicemail is just the risk you take if you call someone.

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