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Saying no (lemmy.ca)

I was wondering how you hobbyists say no to friends and acquaintances mostly. I have gifted a few small things and others just know that I do leather work.

I am getting inundated with requests and some are just way too much work. Of course they offer to pay but my time is limited and really I can’t even ask for a real hourly rate without out being prohibitively expensive. Especially when I have to design from scratch it takes me a ton of time.

I also would like to keep it a hobby and make when and what I want and not fulfill orders! I already have a side hustle I don’t need another one.

I was wondering how your experience is and how you handle this.

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[-] mrmorganiser@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 month ago

Be honest and say you're not taking commissions right now or don't have the time... If they push give them the actual hourly cost it would take you - I have found that usually stops people asking again and in the very very unlikely event they agree then you get decent remuneration for your time.

[-] bowreality@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 month ago

Yeah I think the price just has to be too steep for people to accept. And “I don’t have time” isn’t even a lie.

this post was submitted on 02 Jan 2026
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