So you have one supposed counterexample and now as a general rule NEETs, or anyone who claims this label as you say, are parasitic freeloaders who have had every opportunity in their lives?

To deepen this whole deal, it's a personal example where we don't know the other half of the story. A bitter one at that.

I genuinely wish you and your offspring as you call them, which is a very cold and distancing way to refer to your children, all the best. I just know from experience that it's usually in the parents' hands to make sure their children grow into responsible adults and I also know that parents by default have an extreme advantage over their children in terms of power.

Air these grievances out somewhere else please and I kindly return that fuck you back to the sender.