They directly called me a dick and aphobic, and you’re telling me to be nice? I WAS being nice in comparison to what I could have said in response.

well, respectfully: your comment is kind of dickish and does read--if not as aphobic--at minimum as being flippant about something people just are. if you don't want it to come off that way, you probably should have led with being demi.

as a mod: i pretty distinctly side with @fracture@beehaw.org here, nor do i particularly blame @lolcatnip@reddthat.com.