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Should I just quit urban and social life for a rural and lonely life?
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this post was submitted on 09 Sep 2023
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What you propose is unfortunately just not realistic, it takes way more work and knowledge than you think to be self-sufficient and it's almost certainly not possible without a rather sizable group of people helping each other out.
I would instead suggest finding a place to live where there's a sense of community, where amenities and the workplace is within walking/biking distance and you have access to "quaintness" for lack of a better term. Basically the more it looks/feels like a medieval place the better, such places are viscerally enjoyable to be in. Doesn't have to be rural at all.
A good shorthand indicator of places where you will most likely start enjoying life again is a lack of cars, it's not necessary but it tends to imply these human-centric features.
It's much easier to be a recluse in a city of 20 million than a village of 2000, ironically enough.
Exactly, and when you do choose to interact with others there's an effectively infinite amount of communities to pick from, whereas in a small town you're lucky to have a grocery store sometimes..