I appreciate the thorough response, thanks! And I hear most of this but I'd give some pushback on a few things. Most of this comes from experience with Samsung devices so keep that in mind.

I recognize that the RCS thing is an apple problem that they're making. But my issue is that even if they solved RCS, I think that iMessage is still somewhat running away with messaging and I can't convince anyone to use signal. I like the security, but signal isn't very feature rich. And I'm kind of done waiting for a better android alternative to exist unfortunately. If it did, I might come back.

FaceID: I too love the fingerprint reader. My Note 10 isn't great with having it under the screen and I'd prefer face unlock personally. I can't imagine FaceID to be any less convenient than having a wet finger and being unable to scan it. So I'd call that neutral for me personally.

iMessage: I know I'm rewarding them, I hate it, wish I could live without it but it's stopping me from getting video messages from people.

Home Screen UX: it's less about customization (not being able to place apps in certain places bugs me) but more about the design language itself. I guess less about the home screen specifically and I mean more about the general UI layout, drawers, and control panel. All those are mature on android and I just fine the Apple stuff easier to visually control. Especially comparing the Apple stuff to OneUI or material you. I know I can fix some of what I'm talking about, but I don't necessarily want to fiddle with it.

And Battery: isn't usually a problem for me with a note device, but I've had issues before. Like a weird bug used to drain battery for no reason (Linus of LTT noted this a few times on his Note device). But in general, Apple seems to be making advances in efficiency that aren't present in android devices yet. Hence the larger (and heavier) batteries in many devices.

Again not trying to start a war, don't feel obligated to respond. Just hope that explains my thoughts here.