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Does anyone enjoy intimate kissing scenes in movies?
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I haaaate this shit, and have since I was a kid. I actually recently had a discussion with my gf (both of us in our 30s) along these lines, though I more specifically asked her if she could think of a scene in any media in which the story just absolutely could not move forward without one of those stupid, bawdy, explicit sex scenes, and neither of us could think of one.
Shortbus, maybe? The whole film is about becoming more sexually aware. No idea if it’s any good, though. My research into the matter was only so thorough...
On-screen kissing doesn't bother me, just don't like the ones that seemed forced or are cheesy.
Racked my mind for good examples, and came up with Tobey Spider-Man kissing Mary Jane upside down in the rain and Jack and Rose's first kiss on the deck of the Titanic.
I just don't see how actually showing me a character's genitals serves any more of a purpose than perhaps tastefully implying (through cutaways, for example) that the characters are having sex other than pure titillation... And there is clearly a vast sea of content designed specifically for that, so I don't really care for media that goes out of its way to be graphic if that isn't its express purpose.
Additionally, to be perfectly honest, I don't really know how anyone can view a lot of these sex scenes in a positive light post-#metoo movement either. Maybe I'm just an idiot or a prude or something, but I have a lot of difficulty believing that every single nude/sex scene that's come out of Hollywood has been completely free of some variety of impropriety or, at the very least, coercion. And that by itself is enough to strip away whatever merit you might argue the scene could have.
The sex scene in Zach and Mirri Make a Porno between the two main characters highlights that they actually love each other.
Savage Grace used its sex scene's extremely well. A lot like the other reply about Shortbus, the sexuality is at the front and center of the film's plot. PS: there should be a bit of a trigger warning as there's a strong element of parental sexual abuse and this movie gets fucked up