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‘Pure greed:’ Etiquette expert explains why tipping has gotten out of control
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I’ve stopped using tipped services entirely now. The only tipping I do is for a waiter at a sit down restaurant.
The mini mart under my building asks me to tip when all I’ve done is bring what I want to a counter. It’s infuriating because there’s no reason for it, it’s literally just there to guilt people into an extra few bucks.
This is my test, essentially, too.
To put more detail around my lines:
Order at counter and food brought to me may be 5-10% on the upper end
Order at table, food delivered to table - normal tipping rules
Everything else? Please stop asking and starting paying a living wage or as close as you can.
If I'm going to tip someone for taking my order, then it's either insulting to those who perform table service or the top tip % has to go up. I say people should get paid by their employer and let's end this tip thing.
You should tip gig workers too. They aren't getting even half of what you pay. Some rides/deliveries are literally 3 dollars without a tip.
I don’t use gig services because of the tipping. I’ve cut out any food delivery and don’t use Uber/Lyft. I’m not tipping on top of the +25% service charges those services add.
Lol, read that the other way at first. That's perfectly fine.
Ugh, gig workers need to be brought into some semblance of a minimum wage. Uber and Doordash are just techstortion.
I agree but just like restaurants please don't punish the drivers.
I just refuse to order off Uber Eats or Doordash. Does that count as not punishing the drivers?
Yeah. If the business model isn't viable then it will change.
Just don't use services that rely on exploiting the most vulnerable workers.
When you're hungry, learn how to cook pasta or something.
Nah I'll just curl up in a corner.
And again, why is that my problem?