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Offering solutions is annoying
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this post was submitted on 28 Nov 2023
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At the same time, the way I understand issues and connect with people is to try to relate to them and bounce that back. It helps to make sure my understanding is correct, or identify what is missing.
If that includes something that sounds like solutions, sometimes that's just the natural course of conversation, and people should be just as understanding about the other side of the conversation.
It begins to come across that someone is not looking for conversation, just an audience, and that's not a happy feeling to be on the end of either. It makes us feel just as ignored. After enough of that feeling long term, we can't help but feel like we aren't getting the connection we crave either.
This is a two-way communication issue, and when there's a breakdown, that's not always on us as listeners.