I "fled Reddit" because they started making really stupid managerial decisions and screwing over the user base. They changed how they do things, and I no longer agreed to it. The same thing happened to me on Lemmy. I initially joined a server that decided that majority vote was the way to run things, and I left. Then I joined a server that died. I finally found my current one and like it.

Though in reality, I now frequent both sites and enjoy them for different reasons.

Gacha games, though... They tell you up front what to expect, and they do that. (Except certain illegal cases that actually got in legal trouble for it.) Yes, they're predatory and manipulative, and they ruin the lives of some people who have certain tendencies. That really sucks.

But they're fun and satisfy an urge that many people have that isn't getting satisfied otherwise.

I think spending hundreds of dollars on a game is stupid (I've done it, over a couple years on 1 game) and I think spending thousands is insane, even if you have more money than you can ever use. But I can and do play them for free (or close to it) now if they are fun and don't waste my time.

I don't think these positions are hypocritical. I'm not on Lemmy because I'm a zealot. I'm on here because I enjoy it.