can anyone provide any sources to prove the bs we deal with (beehaw.org)

submitted 1 year ago by sleepybisexual@beehaw.org to c/lgbtq_plus@beehaw.org

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A friend of mine is arguing with me saying cishet men are oppressed and stuff. He thinks I'm insane for supporting the community I'm a part of

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[-] sleepybisexual@beehaw.org 3 points 1 year ago

I'm just sad because all this happened so suddenly. Now I'm just lonely. Down to 1 accepting friend and 2 who I don't know their stance but its prolly not great. I'm sorry I really just need to vent

[-] LinkOpensChest_wav@beehaw.org 4 points 1 year ago

I know the feeling, but you deserve friends who will accept you, and I'm sure you'll find some.

[-] Dislodge3233@feddit.de 1 points 1 year ago

It sucks, but I'm my experience, the faster you cut these people from your life, the faster you will make genuine connections.

Imagine if you brought this friend around the queer community. Nobody would risk being your friend because you are connected with this asshole.

Cut him out. Make new connections. Move on. Be happy.

[-] sleepybisexual@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago

I already cut him off. I hope i find some queer communities in my area. Place is full of church shit and nothing else

[-] Dislodge3233@feddit.de 1 points 1 year ago

Maybe check FetLife for local kink munches. They are queer friendly and may be able to help. Kink is pretty underground, so they may know hidden stuff

[-] sleepybisexual@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago

What does kink and lgbt have to do with each other? Also I'm a minor so that's an issue

[-] Foxxy808@mastodon.social 1 points 1 year ago

@sleepybisexual @Dislodge3233 kink culture is a huge subculture in the queer community. I’m not gonna write a thesis on it but you can do your own research. Also it’s not “a problem” it just isn’t for you since you’re a minor.