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What need is there to stay in permanent contact with your kid while it is in school? Outside of emergencies, there is literally nothing you can ask them that will change their schedule until school is over.
Convenience, peace of mind, etc.
Having immediate instant access to your child is a convenience adults don't want to give up.
Nah, i trust my kids school to contact me if they need to.
It's more about your needs, not emergencies. Text your kid what them to do when they're home, 3 rolls around they text you back saying they made plans sorry. Now that chore you wanted done before you were home isn't getting done and you've gone about your whole day under the assumption it would happen
Friggin teach your kid they can't make plans without checking with you first, then? Besides, what if you text them at noon and they made plans with their friend at 10am? How is that any different?
Kids, famous for following instructions and total obedience
Then you'd know immediately, and can make other plans or tell them no and not have them be super pissy at you for a week for forcing them to cancel their plans to do chores.
That sounds like a you problem, maybe you should raise your kids to be more conscientious lol
I mean for fucksake, my friend's 15 year old knows he can't make plans without checking with mom, even just as a courtesy. Raise a good kid and it's not a problem, just don't let them do whatever the fuck they want?
That doesn't really sound like a "need" situation.
"Hey son, do you know where that USB stick I loaned you last night wound up? I need it for a presentation."
"Can you pick your little sister up from soccer practice on your way home from school? Work is asking me to stay late"
"Hey honey, I'm not going to be able to pick you up today, can you see if your friend Brandon can give you a ride?"
I thought of these, and dozens of other examples, in seconds. There are many, MANY possible reasons why a parent might want to get in touch with their kid and get an answer. I feel like anyone who isn't a complete dumbass would be able to see that.
Are any of those examples of stuff you need to know before next recess? I mean, none of them sound more important than the kid getting a decent education.
Fuck that shit. Even if i did have a phone, I am still not obliged to answer that immediately. I am currently busy. Respect my time.
Oh yeah, parents love there children ignoring them. Surely there will be no repercussions such as having your entire phone taken away if you're not going to use it to respond to the person who pays for it.
All parents respect their children as individuals and absolutely don't consider them to be property.
helicopter parenting is not a good thing.