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[-] backhdlp@iusearchlinux.fyi 37 points 8 months ago

The easy way to have both is:

  • be trans girl
  • get a gf who's also a nerd
  • not straight romance like on TV, but who cares, lesbians are better anyway.
[-] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 36 points 8 months ago

I have genuinely never heard of a straight woman using Linux. They all seem to be trans

[-] dan@upvote.au 8 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

I've worked with a few before.

The thing is that unfortunately women receive a lot of harassment online, so they'll often use a gender-neutral or male-sounding username online, and maybe won't post as much so as to not draw attention to themselves.

I'm not sure why it's more common to see trans women in online communities though. Maybe in general they're more thick-skinned or are less worried about posting online, or maybe just spend more time online in general? Not sure.

[-] current@lemmy.ml 4 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

massive correlation with being trans, and being super adhd/asd/french/some other mental disorder (having one disorder means you have a strong possibility of having others, they're all extremely tied into each other, including gender dysphoria) which are things that cause you to be significantly more likely to spend a majority of your time on the internet and on obscure/nerdy/highly derived forums for various complicated and straightforward reasons.

being a social outcast also may push people towards corners of the internet, and trans people are often social outcasts even if they don't have some other disability causing them to be (especially those from more rural/more conservative or religious areas)

[-] dan@upvote.au 4 points 8 months ago

This is a great comment, and I should have said something similar in my comment. Thanks for writing it.

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