actually think that you are an evil person because you don’t agree with them on some minor point.

Right, this is the major issue for me. I am here for the community. This site doesn't have half the content that Reddit has. We're here on principle with each other. If you aren't trying to make some kind of a connection with me as a person, if you get lost in some singular bullshit nonsense comment I wrote at 10AM on an idle Tuesday, if you start to attribute beliefs and opinions to me that I don't have, if you're not willing to reconcile and coexist, then I have no interest in engaging with you. Makes it real hard to engage with some folks - especially Hexbear.