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This.
I can guarantee you that all those puritan ass hats have the same feelings as everyone else but will "ooohhh no no no no, not me, I would never think THAT!" when asked.
Of course we should protect minors, that's why we have these laws in the first place. However, 18 is an arbitrary age and I've seen girls at 15 being more grownup and responsible for their own actions than certain 25 year olds who clearly still needed protection. Just saying that a relationship is abuse because the girl is 18 and the guy is 30 is honestly stupid.
In the end, it's a consensual relationship, it's legal, and it may fail or not, like any relationship.
On a relevant side note: I've seen many relationships that are actually abusive, instead of "the girl being young". Hell, I've been in one where the woman would beat the crap out of me. I'm a 2 meter (6 feet) big guy with black belt on karate, so I MUST be the bad one here, no?
That day that I got pushed down the stairs, mangled my leg, limped outside, called the police, waited for them to arrive, she came out with a bloody lip out of nowhere. Police were smart and kind enough to explain to me that they understood what happened but that next time they would HAVE to arrest be, because girl is girl and I is big bad man.
Then you didn't observe the 15 year old's behavior long enough.
Yeah you didn't read. My point was not "hey let's date 15 year olds", my point was that there are enough 25 year olds out there that are less mature and responsible than certain 15 year olds.
Because they already have sexual trauma. That is never a good sign - as in, that is a sign that people who work with youth are taught to look for.
The ability of a teenage girl to put on makeup and look “mature” does not indicate that they are emotionally developed enough to be independent or in a relationship with an adult man.