There are gay people. You just have to get used to that idea. There have always been gay people and there will always be gay people. There have always been trans people and there will always be trans people. In fact, there are more LGBTQ... people out there than there are natural blondes, natural redheads, and people with blue eyes. The existance of gay and trans and every other thing is normal (if you believe that being blonde, red haired, or blue eyed is normal.) So, stop teaching your children to fear, to hate, and to hate themselves if they aren't what you've told them is ok and you won't have this problem.