Unifi is probably the best you'll get for prosumer. Unfortunately it's not without flaws either. I'd take it over the junk consumer brands any day still. Because I work in the industry and I like to use a lot more advanced things, I can't get myself to use anything other than opnsense for home use. I have a protectli for hardware. You can install pfsense, opnsense, probably even ddwrt which is probably the most friendly of the bunch from what I hear. I use a ruckus poe fanless switch, but this is the least important for a typical home user network. Just get something that has poe and isn't cloud managed 😂