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Unpopular Opinion
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This shouldn't need an explanation. If your post or comment is made just to get a rise with no real value, it will be removed. You do this too often, you will get a vacation to touch grass, away from this community for 1 or more days. Repeat offenses will result in a perma-ban.
Instance-wide rules always apply. https://legal.lemmy.world/tos/
Money by itself can't change opinions, it can only change behaviors. You could pay me some absurd amount of money and I'd delete my Lemmy account, but that wouldn't actually convince me it was a good idea for any reason other than because you gave me a stack of benjamins. I'd still remember the place fondly.
Before we had money, we had human relationships, and those are based on trust. You can't replace trust with money; people try to do that all the time and it ends poorly.
In terms of its effect in the real world, what would the difference be between you doing that and you genuinely convincing you it was true? To me, the importance of money and the real world effect it had on your choice to do the above dwarfs anything else. I mean, I'd do it too obviously. We all know people don't really love their jobs and they're just lying but who cares? They all turn up to work and bust their arse just the same. Money was important enough for you to publicly deny your own mind.
I'm not saying you have to replace trust.
In the real world, trying to buy people's trust without convincing them logically/morally to do so doesn't always end well. If your boss yells at you at work every day, would you put up with the stress of dealing with that for the sake of money, even if it led you down the road to substance abuse and strained relationships with your friends/family? If you realized that you'd kill yourself within a month if you didn't quit? I sure wouldn't, unless I was dead certain that I wouldn't get a better job anywhere else. The place that tries to compensate for a terrible work environment with tons of money will eventually find that they have no workers whatsoever. Last I heard, that's actually happening to Amazon - they have such absurd turnover in their shipping plants that they're running out of people to hire.
I threw out the Lemmy thing as an example of something I might do for the sake of money. It isn't an ideological thing for me, this is just a place for me to pass time and have an occasional interesting conversation (like this one). Having internet discussions isn't more important to me than having a stable income, it's a thing of priorities. My religion, on the other hand, isn't something I would give up for money.
I'm not asking to buy your trust though. Even then, I don't have to trust you. I only have to trust the effect money will have on you.