White supremacists use the exact same logic, pointing at crime statistics, to justify prejudice toward black people. This is the male sex version of “around blacks never relax”, nothing more, don’t pretend otherwise.

Often including literally the same data from the same source, just broken down by gender instead of race. You see UCR crime stats are perfectly reasonable for drawing population level conclusions from when talking about sex, but are deeply flawed to the point of uselessness when talking about race.

But men and black folks share a lot when it comes to the criminal justice system. For example, if I asked you for some data to use as a demonstration that the criminal justice system is unfairly biased against black folks (or for white folks) you could name off a litany of statistics. Essentially every one of those examples also has a gender gap, and it's against men. For many of them the gender gap is larger than the racial one.

I'm a man, I'm not a rapist. In fact I'm the survivor of childhood sexual abuse. It's absurdly offensive to me to be called the thing I hate most, an rapist. And I hate that I'm fair game at being called that, simply because I was born the "bad gender".

The thing is I like being a man, I'm proud to be a man, I'm happy with my life. but even saying that makes people look at you weird. I have no idea why.