I've always been a bit puzzled as to why so many people, especially the elderly, seem to like me so much. I do have good manners but I've never exactly been much of a people pleaser. From time to time I even worry that what if I just unconscioussly manage to manipulate people to like me or I'm simply just so good at hiding who I truly am.

Then again when I get into an argument with someone online and they call me an asshole, all I can think of is "well yes, I am, but in this particular case you're just misunderstanding me"