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Teens Want Less Sex in Movies and TV Shows, Study Finds
(variety.com)
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Lol, If someone puts a gun against my head and says guess the most lied about thing in human history, honest to god I would say, Teens lying About sex.
For some reason I question the validity of this study.
There is porn now. Everyfuckingwhere. For free. So much porn. Niche porn. Hardcore porn. Fetish porn. You don't have to jerk off to a lingirie catalog like we did when we were kids. Or sneak National Geographic magazines to see boobs. Sex in movies is just sad, stupid, and often unnecessary tittilation.
It's this.
I remember walking to the video rental store in the 90s to hire VCR tapes. We always tried to get that ones rated 18+ because there would be some boob stuff. Usually the attendant wouldn't care.
Now, fuck. Filtering porn out of my social media feeds is a daily ordeal.
Yeah "sex sells" only works when society is not constantly exposed to more extreme content.
So what, we're gonna remove gore and action scenes too? I'm not saying sex scenes inherently have more "value" than any other scene, I'm not even arguing they have any "value", but there are a lot of movies out there that are 90% "unnecessary titillation" in one way, shape, or form.
If they are unnecessary to the plot, and add nothing, then yes?
Sex scenes are fine if they're important to the plot, and/or they add to the movie or show in a valuable way. It just turns out that ~99% of the time, these scenes are completely unnecessary.
Disagree, in the world full of all sorts of sexual depictions this just feels like you've accidentally switched to porn - something you're currently not intended to do and if you would, you'd look for it directly.
It's awkward, unnecessary and usually excessively artsy to be taken seriously, and actors might not be the kind of people you'd love to see sex scenes with.
While I appreciate and share your look at sex as a continuation and natural part of romance, I think it is necessary to show the main part - love, devotion, trust, butterflies in the stomach - and the rest can be figured out.
Something like "they lived happily ever after"
Yeah except people in relationships have sex.
Like it just is a thing that people do for reasons of intimacy or power or excitement. There are lots of excuses for sex and just reducing life to
"And they lived happily ever after and maybe had sex at some point
Isn't even the kind of stories I would want to read or watch.
In the real world people have sex and if I want stories to feel real they are gonna do that if it feels right. Doesn't mean it needs to be gratuitous but hiding it feels Puritan and not true to reality either.
People in relationships also take a shit etc. Doesn't mean we have to demonstrate it for further engagement.
But I guess that's a matter of preference anyway. Let's just agree that there is no single best option.
Sex should not be a myth that people are scared of and hiding it behind the extra that happens after true love does no help for the people who are now going to be afraid or perfectionists about a normal human experience.
I don't like bad writing as a sell point but sex in stories is not that most of the time. The things trying to sell themselves on shock will turn to other aspects just fine. Look at the romance movie that ended with 9/11 instead of a sex scene for that.
I also think bathroom use can absolutely be included in a story if it works and is important to the story which sex as an intimate act with multiple characters usually is.
I just don't think pushing a side of less sex should be talked about is a good side to suggest as equally valid as it does not help anyone but those that want it to be a controlling force and act.
If the plot is they slept with one another and now it's awkward, it is better to at least show them passionately kissing the night before to set the stage for awkwardness later on
Dunno. There are better sources too look for sex. Watching a movie with your mates is just awkward.
There's lot of 'need to touch grass' level of discourse of sex being icky these days.
Disclaimer: Based on my infrequent visits to tumblr and related subreddits.
I have zero sources to back this up but I blame American puritanism
Absolutely. Sex is viewed as either a prideful event to be overly open about or a dark hidden secret that only one should do.
If all we have is extremes no wonder neither side feels very interested in it. It loses the fact that it's a thing that you just can do. It's an action that can have lots of intent behind it and some of it is needed for procreation.
As is now it's too surrounded by argument.
I think that there's a lot of anxiety more than puritanism. There's a lot of reasons, but one of them is certainly the growing political divide; women are trending more and more liberal, and men more and more conservative. Women don't want to get trapped by a man that doesn't think that she should have rights, while men seem to think that they are 'owed' a woman to have their babies (...and how are they going to fucking pay for those kids, when they think their wife is going to stay at home, and they have zero fucking job prospects...?).
TBH, if I was a woman, I sure as fuck would not want to risk dating men right now.
Yeah I think that anxiety is the reason people don't want to see it.
The study also shows that they want escapism and fantasy stories that are only happy more than ever as well.
Ignoring the harsh bits is the point and the anxiety of the topic of Sex itself is I think the key factor in it being taboo because people want to ignore that which makes them uncomfortable.