i guess i just assumed paleness 😅. I've never looked into it properly. just read a lot of stuff in that general setting. have had a lot of context clues to build a definition around.

but yeah, it's definitely more of a status thing. just like nails. I sometimes wish people were more aware of the history and cultural implications of the trend and fashions they follow. long nails are a status symbol because the show you don't do manual labor. so i honestly get kind of annoyed when modern people with super long nails struggle to do their job because they're unknowingly trying to flex that they don't need that kind of job. but you can't very well get that context all across when trying to train someone and they get mad that they can't do a thing with their 3 inch nails. and you'd be a dickhead to try.

i hate fashion most of the time because it's like 99% all just about flexing wealth and status and creating a visual representation of hierarchy. the "experts" who follow it don't know the historical context or where these styles come from or what they actually mean until the very tippy top where it stops making sense to anyone else. those people just look at it and embrace with open arms that fashion is their way of separating themselves from the poors. the more i learn about it the more it makes me sad about the human condition.

for most cultures in most of history, sadly the common standard of beauty was largely defined by wealth. our lizard brains want a partner that can raise a child well. best advantage you can give a child is tons of money. always has been.