Questioning my gender again. Quite sure in bigender but idk (beehaw.org)

submitted 1 year ago by sleepybisexual@beehaw.org to c/lgbtq_plus@beehaw.org

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So to make it clear while im still a guy but I've been feeling like there is a lesser but present amount of girl in me. I am currently using both he him and she her I'm confused. Like I'm a boy but I'm also kinda girl idk

I know I haven't been posting here much but I'd like an answer. If anyone wants to use my posts and stuff I have a lot of my questioning on record in my masto

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[-] ericskiff@beehaw.org 3 points 1 year ago

Just sharing my experience, I’m 42 and still figuring it out. It helps me to remember that gender and the behaviors ascribed to it are made up and have changed massively through history. We get to decide who we are and what we call ourselves, and that can change. We also get to decide if the rules and labels matter to us at all.